When connection breaks, repair is possible.
Brain-based therapy for relational rupture, nervous system regulation, and unwanted pornography use. Compassionate, direct, and grounded in how the brain actually changes.
Janene Kingsley, LMFT #152376 — Licensed in California
The Framework
The R.E.A.L. Repair Framework
A four-step, brain-based process for moving from rupture to reconnection — in therapy and in daily life.
Slow the nervous system. Before anything can be repaired, the body needs to come out of threat mode.
Notice the story the brain is creating. What is it predicting? What does it believe is true?
Take ownership without collapsing into shame. Accountability becomes possible when the nervous system is regulated.
Move toward repair instead of self-protection. Lead with honesty, empathy, and willingness to reconnect.
R.E.A.L.
Repair
Brain-Based Tools to Rebuild Trust and Make Repair Possible
This book helps readers understand what happens in the brain and body when connection feels unsafe — and offers practical tools for moving from reaction to repair.
Rewire the Pattern. Rebuild the Connection.
Patterns of disconnection, shame, and compulsive behavior aren't character flaws — they're the nervous system doing its job. Therapy guides you toward something different.
For individuals and couples navigating conflict, shutdown, defensiveness, betrayal, or repeated disconnection.
For clients who become flooded, anxious, avoidant, numb, reactive, or stuck in survival responses.
For unwanted pornography use, secrecy, shame cycles, betrayal repair, and rebuilding trust.
We identify the cycle: what triggers it, how your nervous system responds, and what keeps it repeating.
You learn how threat, shame, attachment, dopamine, and avoidance shape your reactions.
We build tools for regulation, accountability, communication, repair, and reconnection.
You leave with language, practices, and next steps you can use outside the therapy room.
Recovery That Doesn't Clock Out at the End of a Session
When the hardest moments hit, they rarely happen in a therapist's office. OxytocinRewire is an AI-powered recovery platform that lives in your pocket — built to be there in the exact moment an urge strikes, not just on appointment days. It pairs structured program content and real-time coping tools with an AI companion trained to respond with warmth instead of shame, and it connects directly to your therapist so the work you do together never loses momentum between sessions.
It isn't a tracker. It isn't a blocker. It's a better answer to the moment.
Meet Janene Kingsley, LMFT, BCSSCS
Therapist. Author.
Relationship Repair Specialist.
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and founder of Transformative Relational Therapy Center. Janene helps individuals, couples, and families understand the patterns that damage trust — and learn how to repair with honesty, nervous system awareness, and practical tools.
Learn More About Janene
Listen to the Podcast
R.E.A.L. Repair with Janene
Honest conversations, practical tools, and real talk about repairing relationships and creating meaningful connection.
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